I am a 18 year old guy and I have a really hot cousin. I think she is 20 somethin years old. I notice she looks at me alot at family gatherings. I would really like to get sexual with her.

What does it mean when she looks at me alot?

How can I approach her about being sexual?

How can i find out if she wants to get sexual with me?

I would really appreciate anyone helping me out with this one!!!

Thanks

 

1. A family member looking at another family member doesn't mean that much
2. It's always best to stay away from incest
3. You could approach her, and discuss past relationships, and maybe be like "heh, I bet you got tons of guys lined up, you're so beautiful"

Or something along those lines, to flatter her, and see if she responds.


I'd go with 1. and 2.

 

She like singles me out of everyone else when she looks at me. Her eyes seem to follow me wherever i go.

 

Maybe you had something on your face?
and also.. maybe your exaggerating a tad bit since YOU want her so bad.
Im agreeing with Elite

 

I would never touch my cousin or let them touch me, BUT, we joke a lot. I told my 21yo cousin her skirt was too short and the crazy little bitch flipped it up to show me she wasn't wearing panties with it either. Does that mean we want to fuck?? Hell no!!

Another showed me her new clit piercing. I even played with the ring a little. Does that mean I should want to fuck her?? Hell no!!

 

Can I meet your cousins Silver?

 

well, if you are scared of incest and all that its no big deal, my parents are first cousins and both me and my sister are very healthy, just so you know.

 

She's even recently starting flirting with me

 

I would just ask her for some advice about how to massge a girls breasts in a manner that feels good, because you want to impress some girl you know.
If she is keen you will soon know as she will help you with a demo, but if she is not, there is no real harm done.

Give it a try.

Cheers, Anthony

 

It's always possible that she may have gone through a trauma recently of some sort, one that she didn't tell her family about. Anyway, it may have made her feel dirty and unsexy and she may just be using you as a 'safe' person to practice her flirting and whatever on.

If she looks at you a lot, it doesn't necessarily mean she's in to you. It's possible she could want to talk to you and just was tying to figure out a way...

Don't approach her wanting sex. Talk with her about it maybe at most and if things lead from there, then fine. To figure out if she wants to have sex with you, again, talk to her. You'll never figure out anything unless you talk to her about it.

And most of all, don't assume she's flirting with you. It may seem that way, but if you're lusting for her, your mind may take harmless comments as something more. Like, she could say "you look really strong" and all she would be doing is stating a possible fact.

Talk, that's your only way to figure out her true feelings and what possibilities will come from it.

 

"I did not have sex with that woman...I just flicked her clit for awhile!"

LOL...Silver, if you're serious, you have a very different relationship with your cousins
than I have with mine. I'm impressed, a little jealous, and wondering if maybe they secretly "like" you more than you like them?

 

Mr. Fizz...its entirely possible that your cousin is looking at you alot at family gatherings because she's trying to figure out why you're always staring at her,
or why you always look like you're smuggling a bananna when she's around.

I think every warm-blooded male has at least one "hot cousin". I know I had
two cousins who were in college when I was like, in Junior High, and then were tall, and athletic, and seemed to wear short shorts and tank tops year around. And yes, they did flirt with me a bit, because they noticed how tongue-tied I would get around them, and frankly I think they thought it was funny.
But if I had told them I wanted to bury my face between their awesome breasts
until I passed out from lack of air, they still would have twisted my arm behind my back and marched me over to my mother.

(Shudder) That would have been been traumatic. Just like it will be traumatic
for you if you did get together with her, and it blew up in your face, with angry relatives, etc, etc. Be very careful. My general advice to everyone is...
date outside your own families. Even if we're talking about distant relations,
as opposed to say, your own mother.

I also had a cousin my own age who was genuinely in to me, and vice versa.
We were mostly just friends, but there was a little spark of attraction there.
Since we both considered each other off-limits, that feeling just enhanced the friendship. But the funny thing was, when we would walk away from the rest of the family at the picnic, because they were boring the hell out of us, and we wanted to just hang out somewhere and talk, her parents would always come looking for us, because they were so sure we must be fucking.

 

I want to party with your cousins. That said, legally it is OK in most states if you are 2nd cousins or more distant. But it would cause a lot of strain on the family if you did something and it ever became public.

 

Bad idea.

 

Excellent advice. He is indeed looking at this only from his young horny perspective. What he considers a come on may be just an ordinary interest in him and not a sexual attraction at all. When a cock gets stiff the brain loses all control of logic and reason.

 

You should first talk to her and ask why she keeps looking at you. If it's inocenet then you have nothing to worry about, but if she dose have feelings for you then you have to be serious. Don't try to jump into bed with her right away and above all else DON'T TELL YOUR PARENTS! If you have feelings for each other and you tell them they will most likely forbid you from seeing each other. If you too realy care for eath other and don;t know what to do then you should go see a tharepist.

 

Having sex with your cousin isn't incest as it is such a distant relative.

 

dude, are you really that mental-----I call bullsh##

 

Mr Fizz, I'd like to amplify the statement above... Have you considered that your cousin is psychic and that she's reading your mind! The reason she's looking at you all the time is because she's thinking "dirty bastard, I can't believe my own cousin views me as a sex object". Also, she's probably thinking "if he ever comes onto me I'll cut off his testicles with the tooth pick from my Swiss Army knife".

 

anybody got help?